Testimonials
“Working with Natalie has been a true pleasure. I was really excited when I found her because I was interested in someone who would help me find the root cause of my relationship anxiety. I had no idea what to expect with the guided meditations but they have been extremely powerful and with only 2 sessions with her so far, my perspective of my relationship has already shifted tremendously. I feel a sense of calm and release around my partner and I'm able to interact without feeling emotionally exhausted. My tendency to check my partner's behavior has also decreased significantly. It feels amazing to know that doing this work is going to improve my relationship with myself, which is the most important one anyway! Thank you, Natalie!”
-Dani A
“I had been going between therapists for sometime before stumbling across Natalie's Instagram by chance. I couldn't gel or get to grips with several therapists styles of work and I wasn't seeing any improvement in my anxiety. I was really at a loss. I genuinely felt I was going insane and my only choice was to leave my relationship. I was never going to be able to be in a long term committed relationship. Unfortunately here in the UK, ROCD isn't a well known thing & the usual response is 'you just need to leave'. It was an exhausting and emotionally tortuous time for me.
Natalie's guided meditations help to calm me in the throes of anxiety or to go deeper into the disconnect. She's helping me slowly uncover deep layers of trauma and issues from my past that have yearned to be resolved for so long. The meditations are super useful and I've not ever been able to really appreciate meditation until Natalie showed me how.
If you are unsure or still not ready to get to grips with your relationship anxiety or OCD I really can only recommend getting in touch with Natalie. It'll be the best thing you've done for your mental health. Most importantly there is NO pressure, which I know is important for anyone with anxiety. I, personally hate the feeling of being interrogated by a therapist or specialist but chatting with Natalie fortnightly is like a catch up with a good friend- but I see real results.”
-Shannon F
Kate’s testimonial
Testimonials from our group program:
“I found Natalie in a really dark time of my ROCD. It was when I still did not have a name for what I was feeling, and I was becoming so nauseous every day from the intrusive thoughts I was feeling. I knew I needed help, and one night I searched everywhere for the name of what I could be going through. On the internet, someone coined the word “relationship anxiety.” I was tired of reading blog posts, so I turned to Instagram. I typed in #relationshipanxiety, and the first post I saw was Natalie’s. I resonated with every single thing she said, every post, video, you name it. I felt complete joy and hope after finding her. I knew I wanted to meet her and have her help me as soon as possible. And months later, I was finally able to have her coach me. I wanted someone who could just help me get a grip on this. I wanted to feel the love I have for my partner, who is the best guy I have ever met. She fully exceeded these expectations. She was gentle and kind- so kind. And so raw with me. She taught me so many tools to help myself and open up my mind. I’ve become a more spiritual person because of her (in a psychology sense) and have become more in charge of myself and confident since her. I am so grateful and it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever had. If anyone is struggling out there, I totally recommend Natalie because she has changed my life.”
-Victoria P
”I found Anxious Love Coach on Instagram and all of Natalie’s stuff really resonated with me. I was going through so much anxiety with the new relationship I was in and felt out of control. I had no idea what to expect but was open to learning a new way of working through my fears and anxieties. I learned so many tools to help me in such a way that made complete sense. I had never had anyone explain what was going on in my head and to have someone understand was so comforting. The things I learned are things that I will take with me for the rest of my life. I have already recommended this to many friends and will continue to do so. I can’t keep quiet about my experience because it truly was life changing!!”
-Aimee D
”Before I met Natalie, I was very confused in my relationship; I was constantly plagued by intrusive thoughts about leaving/ staying, I blamed my partner for not being good enough and at the same time I felt so guilty about this. It was a relief to know that these triggers were not red flags, but opportunities for growth "in disguise". Working with Natalie has given me tools to work through my anxiety surrounding relationships and I have found these tools to be so useful in everyday life, not just my relationship - this has truly been a lifetime investment! I am learning self-trust and my partner is a huge gift for my growth; since I started this work I have gained peace, ease and presence in my relationship. I loved working with Natalie, I would recommend her to everyone I know!”
-Sara S
Working with Natalie has been such a journey. What she offers is wisdom, knowledge, the ability to hold space, grace, humanness, humor, groundedness but also so much deepness. She keeps it real while also holding your hand through the journey the 1 on 1 sessions take you through. She has made me feel seen and loved, even through a screen and even starting as just strangers. I have cherished every session and am so grateful for her support and presence. She is doing exactly what she should be doing and that shines bright. She is filled to the brim with so much knowledge and wisdom that exudes out of her. She challenges you and pushes you to your limits of expansion. What I expected was not what I received, in the best way.
-Reanna M.
"I’ve worked with Natalie for about six months, during which I felt like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. I had one on one sessions every two weeks or so, and also WhatsApp support. They have been a godsend! Natalie responds to each of my messages with her whole heart and puts so much thought, consideration and love into each of our interactions. She taught me that I’m not alone in my experiences of an imperfect but beautiful relationship. I experienced the importance and effectiveness of keeping sight of my own paper instead of trying to control my partner. No more, no less. It’s simple, but not necessarily easy; however through this process I have grown. I still have a lot to work through and it’s an ongoing process, but I’m so glad to have met her. I hugely recommend Natalie’s guidance and support along your journey too."