A self-paced course + membership with live coaching for relationship anxiety

Quit your flip-flopping. Make a decision.

And start building the deeply longed-for life you say you want, but keep sabotaging yourself from building.

 
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A NOTE FROM NAT…

I can't promise your anxiety disappears. I do promise a new relationship with it where it loses control over you.
Relationship anxiety isn't necessarily a red flag about your partner. It's a signal from parts of you that have never been *actually* heard! This course doesn't force certainty — it builds the self-trust that makes certainty unnecessary to move forward.

what changes?

Endless doubt to a decision you can stand behind.

Reframe your doubts
Learn why your anxious mind generates worst-case stories — and how to meet them, transform them, and not get hijacked.

Clear old emotional weight
Process past heartbreaks hitchhiking into your present relationship, distorting what you see and how you show up.

Rebuild self-trust
Make decisions — about marriage, kids, commitment — from a grounded place you actually believe in.

Reconnect with your partner
Stop analyzing and start being present. Enjoy the relationship you have without fantasizing about what you don’t.

 
 

THE COURSE

What's inside Both Feet In

  • CORE CURRICULUM: 9 Self-Paced Modules

    Audio, video and PDF content you can move through at your own speed — no deadlines, no pressure.

  • Meditation & Mindfulness Library

    A growing toolkit of guided practices, including the popular Sex Anxiety Clinic workshop.

  • Shadow & Inner Child Work

    Foundational techniques drawn from somatic processing, polarity work, Nonviolent Communication, and Eastern philosophy.

  • Membership Meeting with Nat 2-3x/month

    Join live Zoom sessions and a community of others doing this same work. Accountability and live support built in.

The worst that happens? You're out $49.

The best? You get your life and love back :)

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Is this for you?

This course works best if…

➳ You're stuck in a loop of "do I stay or do I leave?" — and exhausted.

➳ You have a loving partner but can't stop questioning everything

➳ You're facing a transition: engagement, marriage, pregnancy, a big move, etc.

➳ You want to make a committed decision from a grounded place, not from fear

➳ You're single and want to clear the patterns before your next relationship

➳ You've tried therapy and feel like something deeper still needs addressing

➳ You don't need to be in a relationship to benefit. Men are welcome.

This work is for anyone ready to stop letting anxiety make their life decisions.

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YOUR GUIDE

I'm Natalie.

I've been navigating my own relationship with my partner (now husband) for 14 years. I'm a relationship anxiety coach, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, and certified Meditation and Yoga Teacher — and I've spent thousands of hours working directly with hundreds of clients in the trenches of relationship doubt.

I built Both Feet In because I know what it's like to sit across the dinner table from someone who loves you, and feel like a fraud because you’re not sure you love them back. There's a way through. I've lived it and guided hundreds back to their hearts where truth and clarity is found.

 

NEXT STEPs

You are the one
you've been looking for.

No more waiting for certainty.

No more outsourcing your decisions to others.

It's time to be a courageous, active participant in your life.

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FAQs

  • A: I pull from a mix of what’s worked in my personal experience as well as from my coaching, mindfulness, and embodiment training backgrounds. 

    BFI uses a combination of shadow work, inner child work, mindfulness and somatic processing techniques as taught under the lineage of Stefi Preiss, Christian Meyer and Eli Jaxon-Bear. I draw from Nonviolent Communication education by Marshall Rosenburg, polarity concepts inspired by David Deida, John Wineland, and Madelyn Moon, and the Change Triangle by Hilary Jacobs Hendel. Other teachers I’ve been inspired by: Teal Swan, Eckhart Tolle, Sheryl Paul, Chelsea Horton, Peter Levine, and Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk.

  • A: The work is, first and foremost, for you. A lot of this work is owning your shadow and therefore shifting how YOU show up, and evoking changes in your partner without their conscious knowing. If you are single, this work will help you clear out gunk and prepare you for your next relationship. It will also give you tools that will help you make decisions in dating. I believe everyone needs to know this information — in relationship or not.

  • Yes. In fact, there will be some calls only for men.

  • A: No.

  • A: You don’t. There is always a risk you will not like the program. If the message on this page resonates with you, please know the course/program is more of the same. The worst thing that happens is you’re out $197 bucks. In the best case scenario, you dislodge that stuck feeling holding you back from opening your heart, and move on with your life and build something.

  • A: I hear the desire for certainty around this question, and to be honest, I don’t know for sure. In general, if you’ve got a partner that’s devoted to you, ready to commit and build a life with you, and can teach you about love, I believe it’s a partnership worth exploring as these patterns of fears of intimacy will show up no matter where you go. That said, I will point you to another question: what if you couldn’t do this wrong? What if this work will benefit you either way?


  • A: This is the number one fear people have — even above making an investment that’s a bust. Although breakups do happen, I’ve never heard once that they broke up because of the program — only that they trusted their decisions more and loved their partners more whether or not they stayed with them. That’s because there is no terrible side of you with some terrible truth or verdict. Just very activated parts of you acting out to get your attention. When you haven’t experienced a level of detachment from your thoughts before and accessed the realm of Self, every thought feels supremely true and you’re unable to trust otherwise. This work isn’t about forcing anything or discovering some terrible truth. I know it’s probably hard to believe, because the thoughts are so scary and convincing. But the healing work is actually so profound and beautiful, and it can even be fun! No matter what happens, you will be ok and ease is possible regardless of your external circumstances.

  • A: You get access to the newer self-study course for free (this one), as well as 3 months of free access to the membership. The old BFI is now off the market. If you have a hard time accessing it, please email my team at support@anxiouslovecoach.com.